I went to my first AA meeting last week, and felt incredibly uncomfortable. I was so disappointed in how uncomfortable I felt, I started to cry. I came to celebrate my friend’s 3 year anniversary and heard his story, which was really great. The love in the room was palpable, and I was so happy for him. I didn’t even introduce myself, I was too overcome with anxiety and fear. I couldn’t even say the word alcoholic without choking up.
I have seen better days.
My depression is at an all time low. I will be getting medicated Monday, and hopefully this will make me feel better. I lost my job/I quit, then I gained two new ones. With that has come with a huge deal of anxiety about learning two new companies and new chances to mess up, and new opportunities to be mean to myself and hard on myself. I couldn’t even go to improv class today. I was just so miserable and low. I am training for my new restaurant gig and I am so desperate I want to be as happy as possible but I am so, so scared I won’t be welcome there because I am depressed. Just like my old job. I am just really cold when I first meet people cause I fear being rejected so much, but I can’t help it. I am constantly rejected and it just has made me colder. I will think I am being warm, and then I just get a bad vibe. I am just so worried, because I desperately need this job. This isn’t just some waitng gig. I have $12 in my bank account, and $1000 in debt. I need this.
I am working at another customer service job next month, and that anxiety is killing me, too. I have had to fill out so many forms since it’s a big company, and I even have to take a drug test. I haven’t used in 4+ months, but I still just feel so exposed.
Oh, and my OBGYN called me about my results. They don’t call unless something is wrong. Anxiety, again.
I am just so depressed and anxious, and haven’t felt this low in a long time. I hate not making money, I hate being lost, and I just hate blowing off improv class because I am exhausted and socially just not up to being around people. It is so hard to be around people and be fake all day in customer service and come home. My parents get the worst of it. They don’t get it, no matter how many times I try to explain it. I am their burden.
I had to cancel my euro trip because of funds. $400 down the fucking toilet. It will be ok, it’s just another burden. Another “you don’t get to celebrate the positive changes you’ve made in your life”. Just a simple “ok, life sober sucks too, have fun”. I just want to love life, and I don’t, at all. I am so, so miserable, and I annoy myself constantly. I want to shake it off but it just is latching on to me, constantly telling me I’m a loser. They call this alcohlism recovery, which is just so brutal. I don’t crave alcohol, but I crave a distraction like I had before. The distraction was so important. Now I just…have to hope. and pray.
I just don’t like how I’m feeling and behaving at all. I am so upset that the AA meeting didn’t make me feel better–I, for once, came in with a positive attitude, and it just was way too intense.
I don’t like this person I am. I thought this would go away with sobriety and therapy, and it doesn’t. I hope medication helps me, I can’t afford to be like this anymore.